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| Being with guys is like "Expectation vs reality" all the time... |
But I know it deep in my heart. That anywhere in this great wide world exists a guy like the ones in the movies. Who's always there for you. Who always cares. Who runs to the airport just to say Goodbye to you and "I love you". So I found out for you...
10 Signs that he's perfect
1. He thinks about you and texts you
You wake up and there are about 15 text messages by him on your mobile. They make you smile. And are proof that the missed you last night and that he cares about you. In reality, it's more often the case that you texted him good night, he was online about two hours after this and didn't even answer a single word.
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| Reality strikes again -.- |
2. He gives you presents
You didn't had to write him a wish-list of what you like and it isn't your anniversary day or your birthday. He just (out of the blue) thought of something personal, creative & romantic to offer to you - just because he "loves to see you smile". Like the new album by your favorite band or that bracelet that you found too expensive to buy but secretly longed for it in a while.
3. He's a romantic
Isn't this what we (as girls) all wish for? A guy who writes a love song - just and "uniquement" (= only) for you.
A guy who calls you in the middle of the night - just to hear your voice (okay it's getting some kind of creepy over here - is he like "overly attached boyfriend"?).
And after all, a guy that takes you to the most beautiful and romantic place in town to have a picnic. Not to have sex on the blanket, just to count the stars and holding your hand.
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| As long as he doesn't become like the male version of overly attached girlfriend - being romantic is alright... |
It's all about showing interest. "I wanna hear what you, what you've got to say" (The Subways) pretty much sums it up. He wants to know your opinions and how your day passed. And when he didn't listen without purpose he says sorry. He doesn't try to convince you or change your mind all the time, he rather gives you advice and support when you need them. When he makes fun of you or teases you, you always know it's a joke. If someone disrespects you, he plays the knight with the shining armor to defend you.
5. You have the best conversations
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| Which one will you choose? |
No matter if it's about which sauce you like best on your Subway sandwich, how you spend the weekend or the deepest philosophical questions of the universe - He'll make every conversation special. When you're with him you don't feel the time passing. The next time you look at the clock it will be 3 am and you'll be like: "WTF?". Everytime you two talk it's fun, it's deep and interesting and you could never run out of suitable topics to talk about together.
Last but not least, he makes you laugh. He is the funniest guy ever (and he not only thinks that - for real).
6. He's sensitive
He knows when you're sad. He knows.
And then he "hold[s] you tight straight through to daylight" until you can see the sun again. (Literally, badum tss)
And hell yeah, he cries in front of you.
7. You have common values
He's perfect if he respects you and your opinions, I already mentioned that. He doesn't have to share all of them - seriously, imagine if he did - it would be annoying and boring as fuck! But some interests you should share, if not, it'll be hard passing time together (music, hobbies, sports, politics, whatever).
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| Like you both love cookies - That's something to build on! (jk) |
So the perfect guy for you would love to have even one more child and a cat in addtion to your wishes. You have to clarify that you want similar things for your life, your relationship and your future.
8. HIS LOOKS
I'm sorry but it had to be said. Inner values are all well and good, but in reality, we're all f*cking superficial. And that's why he is a mixture of Ryan Gosling, Channing Tatum, Zac Efron and "that cute boy" you saw in the subway last week.
I would say: "His body is a wonderland" if I wanted to fake John Meyer. I mean, yeah, for sure he has a sixpack. He's strong enough to tuck you in bed when you're sleeping. You love touching his arms, his chest...everything. And he has the softest and biggest hands to caress you.
Heeey, I mean, we're talking about the "perfect guy" here.
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| JUST... |
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| ... CAN'T... |
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| ... DECIDE !!! |
9. He's good in bed
...aaaand a good kisser. That's all there is to say. I mean, guurrrl (pronounce that in a Tyler-Oakley-voice, please): He's PERFECT. He knows the right time, the right place and what to say .(see 3. and 6.)
10. He doesn't exist
Okay. Here it is. The last and bitter and only true sign, that he is MR PERFECT: He doesn't exist.
Neither for me, nor for you. (In case I'm lying and you found him - please text me!)
At least, the perfection of a person, of anyone isn't possible in reality. Because we're all imperfect.
However, we all hope for him or her to cross our way one day. And maybe there is a person - one in 7 billion people who live in this world by now (or even more than one, like 47 people or something) who matches you 100%. And you're going to meet them. Yeah, sure.
But leaving behind such ridiculously unlikely cases of fairytales, we remark that there are people in our real life who may not bring us flowers everyday or look like a hot actor, who aren't "perfect" in all those ways I described. But who are loveable even though their imperfection. Or that we especially love them for their little quirks.
You know, every individual has its weaknesses. But if you found someone, whose tics and faults you're willing to accept and of whom you have no doubt that you want to spend the rest of your life with him... then he is, even if he maybe doesn't seem to be at all - "The perfect guy".
Cause he's just perfect for you.
*why 10? I needed to make 9. a own sign because it's this important to me.
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